BIG TROUBLE
"Bob" decided to dump me at the end of August, because we got back to fighting and he didn't want to try to work things out. He also decided that he wanted a girlfriend who would obey him..be his toy, so to speak. Fine. We were going to stay freinds, but then then the STD issue came up. I mentioned to him that I wanted to get tested and he immediatly thought it was about him (when it wasn't), thought that I was saying that he was a diseased whore (which I didn't), and started to hate me. Me, the same person he was telling that he couldn't live without and would die for only a week before. I hurt his pride, damaged his (huge) ego, so he decided to get revenge. He went to our usual chat place and told a certain person that I called her a slut (I did not) figuring that if she got pissed at me, her friends would too. Together, they revealed at lot of personal things about me in an attempt to humiliate me. It didn't work, and I didn't stop chatting. He figured that chat was such a huge part of my life that I would care what those people thought about me. He was wrong..I didn't. Eventually, the woman believed that I didn't call her a slut and we made up. She may have told that to "Bob", I don't know.
Two to Three weeks later...
Someone started impersonating me on ICQ. I immediatly knew it was him. Who else had my password? He began sending nasty messages to my friends in another desperate attempt to get them to hate me. Again, it didn't work. Most people knew me well enough to know that I don't talk like that.
His Next Ploy....
Once he figured out that impersonating me wouldn't work, he changed my password so that I couldn't log on to my account at all and changed my info. It's very crude and disgusting and I still can;t beleive that he would sink so low in an attempt to get revenge for something that happened over a month ago, when all previous attempts have failed.
GET OVER IT ALREADY!!!!!
My Response...
The first time that he used my number, I emailed him and told him to knock it off. He told me that he he didn't do it. (liar) The second time, I ignored it. When he changed my password, I emailed him again. He wrote back telling me that he didn't do it (liar) and that I should get a new number, and that if I didn't leave him alone, I would regret it. A threat?? Not the first I've recieved from him.
I emailed and icqed Mirabilis, explaining the situation and asking them to delete my old number and deal with him. No answer as of yet. I also got in touch with my lawyer aunt, because I'm sure that what he's doing is illegal. All we can do right now is wait for Mirabilis to act. If they don't, she is going to contact him directly (I hope).
See How Much Trouble Internet Relationships Can Be?
I was lucky. "Bob" could have been a killer and I could be dead now. Luckily he's just a spoiled, egotistical little brat, with a brain the size of a pea. Lots of people aren't that lucky.
Here's What I Learned (My Point)
1. Most Internet relationships are *BAD*!!!!!
2. No matter how well you *think* you know a person, you could be wrong. The great thing about the internet is that you can edit what you say before you say it. You can become a totally different person.
3. NEVER reveal passwords or personal info about yourself to anyone, even if you think that you can trust them. It *WILL* come back to haunt you!!!
Please keep this advice in mind...I've been there. Next time, it could be you, and you might not be as lucky as I was. You COULD end up dead.